Now we are back together...
Walking carefully, waiting for the other shoe
(in the back of the head?)
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst, and pray often. (if you're religious).
If not, drink scotch until the gremlins go away...
She's worth some effort. But, so many times in the past...
Inner daemons. Kinda like printer drivers; except they bite.
3 comments:
"He just doesn’t get it. He sees me as only one dimensional and doesn’t quite get that the box he thinks I’m in is the box he is in and refuses to expand it. It seems to me that all he sees is a woman with tattoos and some adventurous experiences who has the ability to do some business stuff. But he doesn’t even bother to see the business as a genuine entity with growth potential. His business isn’t even generating business and mine is at least getting daily visitors from actual businesses...and it's not even officially launched yet!
He continually keeps his ideals of me inside the box he created for me - he has one for each prospective in his life – it’s a BIG closet. And I’m really tired of being labeled. I got past being labeled by others and now he’s doing it to me… He is the sweetest and kindest man I have ever dated but I’m tired of someone else creating a definition for me and having it cataloged, packaged and presented without me having a damn thing to say about it. I really do adore him but.... we are from two different worlds with similar interests
He won't go camping with me, won't go to Labyrinth with me, the beach is way too far (less than an hour's drive) and doesn't like to socialize and isn't good at networking.... so unless I can fully accept that we will only be together at home or on the rare occasion he wants to see his favorite musician (known her for 25 years) we won’t be going out together socially.
Can that really work?"
The difference? I didn't make my thoughts public.
and my comment in my defense is where?
As stated; I don't usually check for comments --- because (a) they are moderated (it's how I set up the site); and (b) I don't get any notification that anyone has posted a comment, so I'm not used to look!
It's only the second or third comment anyone has left... (sigh) in the last 3-4 years.
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