Tom Lehr said it best...

And everybody hates the room-mates...

You'd think that we'd all get past this kind of crap.

Oh well; press a button and get a response.

Now, how do I get them to apologize to each other without a shotgun?

:: Apologies to Tom!

Tom Lehrer == Brotherhood Week

So, on the treadmill... but to where?

Having a person in your life can be difficult. Especially when there is tension; and no good way to diffuse it. Nothing I do works right; and how do I let go of my fears?

For that matter, how does she?

Life with another in the mix is always a challenge to your preconceptions; I just wish mine were not so set in stone.

(Hers... well, that's another day)...

Here's to hope.

to quote puck...

PUCK

If we shadows have offended,
Think but this, and all is mended,
That you have but slumber'd here
While these visions did appear.
And this weak and idle theme,
No more yielding but a dream,
Gentles, do not reprehend:
if you pardon, we will mend:
And, as I am an honest Puck,
If we have unearned luck
Now to 'scape the serpent's tongue,
We will make amends ere long;
Else the Puck a liar call;
So, good night unto you all.
Give me your hands, if we be friends,
And Robin shall restore amends.

And yet, I guess the Nay's have it...

For whatever reason, I stepped in it with my gf, and created this entire mess.

And, seeking some hope of redemption; I suggested that maybe we should let the readers vote.

To quote Mal:

"That turned out well..."

implying not.

Mea maxima culpa.

http://community.livejournal.com/los_angeles/4906527.html#comments

The only time I get my foot out of my mouth...

IS to change feet. Once again, upset the gf with a unintended consequence. My fault; and a stupid move to make... no matter the "intended use", the results not pretty.

I apparently cannot get out of my own way. And the worst part; I didn't even remember posting the damm thing. (being annoyed, spur of the moment, or whatever...)

Should I get beat up for something I don't even remember doing? Obviously.

I just wish I could think *before* I create mayhem.

Wow. Sometimes your preconceptions get you into trouble...

I posted the comments, because I just saw them. (nobody usually comments, so I don't look)...

If I posted the whole ugly mess, then I'd be spiteful; and (as of yet) I'm still trying to not be that kind of person. I already resolved that I don't get mad, don't get even, don't get ahead; but this turning the other cheek stuff... I'm a jew if anything, and I don't really subscribe to that.

Being said, however... everybody is entitled to their opinion. Just keep it clean and civilized; how I was raised... and I don't do that level of anger anymore. Not for anybody. (well, maybe for BP and other idiots); but not uncontrolled. NOT ever again.

16 years, and I haven't lost it completely. Maybe today I won't either...

Head spinning...

So we broke up. That lasted three days.

Now we are back together...

Walking carefully, waiting for the other shoe

(in the back of the head?)

Hope for the best, prepare for the worst, and pray often. (if you're religious).

If not, drink scotch until the gremlins go away...

She's worth some effort. But, so many times in the past...

Inner daemons. Kinda like printer drivers; except they bite.